At 10:00 last night, after a night of at least twelve phone calls, I drove a half an hour to his house to see if everything was okay. Lights were out, car was gone.
Called again at 11:00 p.m.
Called at 7:30 this morning and woke him up.
"It was too late to call when I realized it". (yeah, that's about the time I was driving to your house)
me: "Don't you EVER do this again. EVER.
This is so not over.